“Keep the Fork”
There was a woman who had been diagnosed with a terminal illness
and had been given three months to live. So as she was getting her
things “in order” she contacted her preacher and had him come to her house
to discus certain aspects of her final wishes. She told him which
songs she wanted sung at the service, what scriptures she would like read,
and what outfit she wanted to be buried in. The woman also requested
to be buried with her favorite Bible. Everything was in order and
the preacher was preparing to leave when the woman suddenly remembered
something very important to her.
“There’s one more thing,” she said excitedly.
“What’s that?” came the preacher’s reply.
“This is very important” the woman continued. “I want to
be buried with a fork in my right hand.”
The preacher stood looking at the woman, not knowing quite what
to say.
“That surprises you, doesn’t it?” the woman asked.
“Well, to be honest, I’m puzzled by the request,” said the preacher.
The woman explained. “In all my years of attending
church socials and potluck dinners. I always remember that when the dishes
of the main course were being cleared, someone would inevitably lean
over and say, ‘Keep your fork’.
It was my favorite part because I knew that something better
was coming…like velvety chocolate cake or deep-dish apple pie. Something
wonderful with substance! So, I just want people to see me there
in that casket with a fork in my hand and I want then to wonder ‘What’s
with the fork?’ Then I want you to tell them: “Keep your fork…the best
is yet to come.”
The preacher’s eyes welled up with tears of joy as he hugged the woman
good-bye. He knew this would be one of the last times he would see
her before her death. But he also knew that the woman had a better
grasp of heaven than he did. She knew that something better was coming.
At the funeral people were walking by the woman’s casket and they saw the
pretty dress she was wearing her favorite Bible and the fork placed in
her right hand. Over and over, the preacher heard the question “What’s
with the fork?” And over and over he smiled.
During his message, the preacher told the people of the conversation
he had with the woman shortly before she died. He also told them
about the fork and about what it symbolized to her. The preacher
told the people how he could not stop thinking about the fork and told
them that they probably would not be able to stop thinking about it either.
He was right. So the next time you reach down for your fork, let
it remind you ever so gently that the best is yet to come.